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    Confronted by an Angry Bitch

    My wife sees a psychological therapist once a month and this week I drove her to an appointment accompanied by a 4 year old granddaughter. While in the waiting room during the wife's appointment the granddaughter began to increasing act up and I made repeated attempts to get her to act properly. While this was going on, I noticed a woman approaching me with a very angry look on her face and I expected to be taken to task (so to speak) for not being able to control the granddaughter. Upon approaching me, the first words out of her mouth were, "you may not know this, but it is ignorant to tell a child to shut up." In consideration of the environment (rather than respond with a simple go fuck yourself) I told the woman to "take a hike." She then again tells me that I am ignorant. I tell her that I think she is ignorant and to get out of my face. She says "I am not in you face" but continues to stand in front of me in a confrontational manner. Then I see a dude approaching me with a confrontational look on his face. I am thinking this is a boyfriend, husband, etc. and give him the don't fuck with me look. After a stare down, the two of them move away from me. When the wife shows up we go out in the parking lot and I explain what happened. She tells me "I can't take you anywhere" and states that the people I had the confrontation with were a psychologist (the angry bitch) and the Director of the center. I don't know what to think of this. After pondering the situation I decided the bitch was some angry man hater who believes one should negotiate with a child over behavior issues. I would appreciate any thoughts on this. Do we live in a society where people think they can confront strangers with impunity spewing liberal bullshit? It should be noted that my attempts to correct the granddaughter were in a whisper which is one of the reasons the confrontation quickly pissed me off.
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    They think they're special because people give a shit about them in their little academic world, but its a man's job to raise his children his way.

    I wouldn't interfere unless you were obviously abusing your child.
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    It is ignorant to tell a little kid to shut up...it doesn't work...as you may have noticed by your lack of ability to shut the child up.



    Of course the bitch should mind her own business...it's not like you were punching the kid in the face or anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kadmos View Post
    It is ignorant to tell a little kid to shut up...it doesn't work...as you may have noticed by your lack of ability to shut the child up.



    Of course the bitch should mind her own business...it's not like you were punching the kid in the face or anything.
    And if you don't tell them to shut up you have zero chance they ever will. They aren't mind readers but they do need direction at times. Your reply is what I expect from a liberal douche.

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    With the info we have at hand, it doesn't sound like you were out of line. Kadfuck suffers from the same thing all his socialist brethren do: the fatal conciet. They do not know what they don't know. He and they think THEY all know whats best for ALL children. How ignorant and stupid of you for A not knowing what they know and B not immediatly bowing and sucking their collective dicks in pure, holy gratitude for them blessing you with such profound knowledge as 'It is ignorant to tell a little kid to shut up...it doesn't work...as you may have noticed by your lack of ability to shut the child up.'..........

    Fuck all of them. In three years of teaching, JUST LAST WEEK for the first time ever I had a bullying issue in my room where one boy (15) was laughing at a spec ed girl (awesome kid, really smart, and a total sweetheart of a kid). Inside I was off the reservation pissed. Took the ring leader asshole to the hallway, tried to call his parents but all numbers were disconnected or just shut off. Told him I'd deal with it after school, and to GO BACK IN, SIT DOWN, SHUT UP, AND GET TO WORK. Advised him another word and he'd be out of my class, as bullying doesn't work for me. I was not yelling, but using my stern and slightly pissed voice with a tone. Guess what kad? THIS kid shut the hell up. AND, he worked on a test which he actually PASSED.....
    "What sick, barbaric bastards.

    It's one thing to use terrorism to make a political statement, but the wanton mutilation and suffering of innocents? How does that forward your political goals? When done in the name of religion, how does that earn you brownie points with God?

    Fuck religious extremism. And especially fuck the "religion of peace." "

    So, lagcsocialist supports terrorism AS LONG AS ITS FOR POLITICAL ENDS....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Schuetzenman View Post
    And if you don't tell them to shut up you have zero chance they ever will. They aren't mind readers but they do need direction at times. Your reply is what I expect from a liberal douche.
    And your reply is what I've come to expect from conservatives, you expect people are going to do what you say just because you said it...it's all just hot air.

    If you want a kid to shut up, you don't tell them to shut up, you tell them why they need to shut up!

    My kid didn't give me any trouble, and she was a spirited one. But I didn't just blow hot air in her direction either, she knew what would happen if she didn't behave.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kadmos View Post
    It is ignorant to tell a little kid to shut up...it doesn't work...as you may have noticed by your lack of ability to shut the child up.



    Of course the bitch should mind her own business...it's not like you were punching the kid in the face or anything.
    And how would you have handled the situation, i.e., getting the kid to behave? Oh I see you answered the question. Use logic and reason with a 4 year old.

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    Kads right. Socialism is the wave of the future! We are all one big collective, all of us, all equal, the same, and the same discipline that worked with his daughter would surely have worked here. Jet, hope you brought your knee pads as I believe you have some apologizing to do!

    I don't see anything wrong here. Not really what I ordinarily would say, but not impossible for me to react that way either. No two situations are the same. Plus, she's your GRANDdaughter....Hard to take away a toy or ground her. I know kad, I know, those don't work either. Please, criticize my two suggested methods above and show us all the way of the Party!
    "What sick, barbaric bastards.

    It's one thing to use terrorism to make a political statement, but the wanton mutilation and suffering of innocents? How does that forward your political goals? When done in the name of religion, how does that earn you brownie points with God?

    Fuck religious extremism. And especially fuck the "religion of peace." "

    So, lagcsocialist supports terrorism AS LONG AS ITS FOR POLITICAL ENDS....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruskiegunlover View Post
    Guess what kad? THIS kid shut the hell up.
    And that's how it's done. You let them know their day is going to suck if they don't shut up.

    Yes jet3534, that is logic and reasoning that even really little kids understand.

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    Jet, did you just tell your granddaughter to shut up? Or did you say anything else? Clarify the situation for us....
    "What sick, barbaric bastards.

    It's one thing to use terrorism to make a political statement, but the wanton mutilation and suffering of innocents? How does that forward your political goals? When done in the name of religion, how does that earn you brownie points with God?

    Fuck religious extremism. And especially fuck the "religion of peace." "

    So, lagcsocialist supports terrorism AS LONG AS ITS FOR POLITICAL ENDS....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruskiegunlover View Post
    Plus, she's your GRANDdaughter....Hard to take away a toy or ground her. I know kad, I know, those don't work either.
    Grandma made me sit in the corner. I took toys and from and grounded my nieces, worked fine for me. Except their mom would cave as soon as she showed up.

    Grounding, taking away of toys, time outs, taps on the head, swats on the backside, and on very rare occasions, spanking worked well for my daughter.

    Most of the time it was totally unnecessary, a simple look, or a finger resting on the back of her head and she knew she had to straighten up and fly right.

    And she knew full well if she didn't, then her day would get worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kadmos View Post
    And that's how it's done. You let them know their day is going to suck if they don't shut up.

    Yes jet3534, that is logic and reasoning that even really little kids understand.
    And how does she know her day is going to suck ... because you had to tell her at one point or another what the consequences are. You told her to shut up or X, Y and Z will happen so you prove my point. Telling a kid acting up to shut up if making a lot of noise is step 1 to corrective action. The next thing I liked to use is to count to 3. If you get to 3 the kids ass gets spanked. Doesn't take many times until just saying 1 gets the job done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Schuetzenman View Post
    And how does she know her day is going to suck ... because you had to tell her at one point or another what the consequences are. You told her to shut up or X, Y and Z will happen so you prove my point. Telling an kid acting up to shut up if making a lot of noise is step 1 to corrective action. The next thing liked to use is to count to 3. If you get to 3 the kids ass gets spanked. Doesn't take many times until just saying 1 gets the job done.
    I do believe you are actually proving my point...

    ...but either way

    At any rate, telling a kid to shut up generally doesn't work unless you have already established (even if only vaguely) that there will be consequences, and that you are the authority in the room.

    It's not all that different than training a dog, when you get right down to it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kadmos View Post
    I do believe you are actually proving my point...
    You would think that ... being a liberal douche. With your head so far up your ass you are always looking at things upside down and backwards.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruskiegunlover View Post
    Jet, did you just tell your granddaughter to shut up? Or did you say anything else? Clarify the situation for us....
    First thing, I explained to her the difference between an inside voice and an outside voice, told her not to climb on the chairs, run around and so forth. She continued to talk in a very loud voice. I told her to please be quiet as we would be leaving soon. Then she continued to talk in a very loud voice and I told her to shut up which she did. All instructions to the child were in a whisper so the know-it all bitch was making a major monitoring effort to be able to hear anything I said. In retrospect I should have asked her how many children she had raised to adulthood. The answer would have been zero. She is likely a liberal who feels that the writings of some glorified Dr. Spocks trumps actual experience raising children.
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    Sounds like Angry Bitch is ignorant about how to approach an adult in a persuasive manner. I'd say she needs to work on her communication skills
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kadmos View Post
    swats on the backside
    That same psychologist and director would have had you arrested for child abuse, had they seen you do that, and had child protective services remove that child from your home...you child abuser you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oswald Bastable View Post
    That same psychologist and director would have had you arrested for child abuse, had they seen you do that, and had child protective services remove that child from your home...you child abuser you.

    I'll tell you, or them, the same as I told my daughter when she tried to say it was abuse...


    Quote Originally Posted by Missouri Revised Statute, Section 568.060
    Abuse shall not include injury inflicted on a child... or discipline of a child by a person with care, custody, or control of the child, including spanking, in a reasonable manner.

    Yep, Missouri law lets you spank a child

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    I have been known in certain situations to curse in front of my grandchildren, however the cursing that I would have unleashed on that woman would've been epic. Think the opening scene of Way of the gun. Nothing gets under my skin more than someone butting into my business. If I want your opinion or insight I will ask for it. If you want to inject yourself into my world then don't get mad when I tell you exactly how I feel about the situation.

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    should have asked her how much free advise did I just get? that would have shut her up.
    While no one ever listens to me,
    I am constantly being told to be quiet.

    In a world of snowflakes,
    be the heat..

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