You know years ago you didn't really see guys 25+ getting stuck in the friend zone with a woman...but as our society has drastically and oddly changed you see it.
You know the guy. He really like's a particular woman, she knows it but plays the "lets be friends card". He bites and with hopes and aspirations of being with her so he decides to play puppy on a string. He'll go shopping with her, change the oil in her car, cook dinner, fix things around the house...but she always keeps her guard up. He does all the things a b/f or husband would do but he never gets any intimacy. I see guys in situations like this and can't figure out how they get stuck in something like that, when its obvious they are never going to really be with that woman. What's even stranger is when these women with "friend zone" guys date someone else and the "friend zone" guy pops up to still be the puppy dog.
I am not saying a fellow can't be friends with a woman and it not evolve into something else. I am not saying a guy can't have female friends. I am talking about guys who are stuck in a relationship were they think their efforts will be awarded and they are only being used...and somehow think its ok. It's just strange...especially if they are over 25.
How does that happen? Would a fellow's self esteem have to be in shambles for him to end up like that?
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